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Patch Poll: How Much Is Your 2012 Holiday Budget?

Have you trimmed your spending because of the economy or has good fortune enabled you to spend more?

 

Many of you might already be done with your holiday shopping. Still others might be waiting for even better deals that sometimes pop up prior to Christmas.

But how does your spending compare to prior holiday seasons?

Those who have lost jobs due to the economy, who feel their jobs might be threatened or who have suffered other setbacks might be a little tighter with the purse strings than someone who just got that promotion.

With Black Friday and Small Business Saturday over, and Cyber Monday waiting for a business surge tomorrow, you should have a pretty good handle on your 2012 holiday budget. So how much do you plan to spend this holiday season?

Let us know by voting in our poll. And tell us in the comments section why you are spending more, less or how you are saving money this season.

  • How Much Is Your 2012 Holiday Budget?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • Zero
        1 (3%)
    • Under $100
        3 (11%)
    • $100-250
        1 (3%)
    • $250-500
        6 (22%)
    • $500-750
        4 (14%)
    • $750-1,000
        3 (11%)
    • More than $1,000
        9 (33%)
    Total votes: 27
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
Related Topics: 2012 Holiday Spending, Black Friday, Christmas, Cyber Monday, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Small Business Saturday, and holiday budget

M L spazok

6:02 am on Sunday, November 25, 2012

At this time of year, there are many items that are seasononal or unusual - so its buy it now or lose out. perhaps that is why we shop more. Happy Holidays!

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NE12Ukid

8:24 am on Sunday, November 25, 2012

Have you trimmed your spending because of the economy or has good fortune enabled you to spend more?

I am happily able to spend more this year. A few new decorations, a bit more in cash for the college students in the family, and one big ticket item for us!

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James Dale Barrington

10:32 am on Sunday, November 25, 2012

I don't abide by the traditional Christian festival/holiday. I do purchase a small gift of some kind from those offered by Heifer International to send to a new friend somewhere in the world who can benefit from it, and send the gift forward to others as their ( Heifer International) fight against poverty continues.. The cost is less then $ 100.00. I do this for myself and my family. We share no other gifts. We go to the state park near us and romp and play together until we get tired, and collapse at a 'comfy' place for a good nap, - and wake up and prepare a meal that even all vegetarians would be proud of and then play card and board games late into the night. Since I don't have a television we listen to music of all kinds and simply chat with each other mostly about politics and religion; the two non-starters for good conversations for most people. We depart with good byes and kisses and me standing in the drive-way waving like a crazy man until they are ought of sight. -- Since they (four sons and their families) all live out of state I'm not beyond throwing them kisses and yelling out '1-4-3 forever' (for 'I love you forever') as they drive away. - Then I return to the house and clean up the mess. -- I love it!!

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Roger

6:35 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

Why do you choose a date for your event to coincide with the Christian celebration of the incarnation of Jesus Christ?

clint eastwood

2:08 pm on Sunday, November 25, 2012

Wow James I'm glad that works for you an your family :-). But for the the rest ....MERRY CHRISTMAS

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John Williams

3:41 pm on Sunday, November 25, 2012

Gee, James, that sounds like a great holiday. Gifts and family time. And on Dec. 25th, you say. My family does the same thing! Small world!

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James Dale Barrington

8:22 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

Roger- Clint E.- John -- I am not a Christian, but I consider myself an admirer of Jesus as I would many others throughout history, and today, that gives preference to those with less of the material advantages we take for granted so often. Because Christmas is such a part of the culture of our lives we respond to it in the way that is appropriate for everyone when that is possible. Because of the holidays my sons or myself will use some of the days off to visit each other. - Since the article was speaking to the value we place upon these holidays I spoke to that. It is a small world, and I do wish each of you a Christmas full of merry-making, love and family.

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Roger

8:25 pm on Friday, November 30, 2012

What does "an admirer of Jesus" do with His teaching? What does it even mean? Jesus did not come in human form to be admired. In fact, he had great disdain for those who followed him without belief. He chastised them for their practices, and their desire for signs and wonders.

The Incarnation of Jesus has zero to with admiration. It has everything to do with God's fulfillment of prophecy and God's purpose. God's plan was redemption of mankind. Redemption is about an eternal destiny, not about those with "less of material advantages." Spiritually, everybody is broken, and in need. Jesus never came to deal with making people prosperous. His commands regarding those will less was directed to His followers as a response to what He has done, and their acceptance of the gift of salvation.

I'm really confused with those who try to use Jesus as a reason for their behaviors and actions, yet refuse to believe what He says. This makes no sense. It is akin to the atheist putting up a Christmas tree in their home, and "celebrating" Christmas. How confusing? To what end?

The only value to Christmas is directed toward the Incarnation of Jesus Christ. All other responses are hollow and void of any meaning.

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Roger

7:12 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

James, still looking for an explanation of what it means to be an "admirer of Jesus Christ." Thank you.

cc

10:14 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

Heifer International is a awesome company and donate to them all year. Only Pet Peeve I have about them is 1/5 of the money donated goes to sending you a ton of Snail Mail every week and Administration Cost. I have written and called them to asked them to send me emails instead of Snail Mail as I would love to see more money be put into helping others.

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James Dale Barrington

11:36 am on Monday, November 26, 2012

cc- I agree. I have talked to them about that very thing. They have upped their marketing approach for which follows splashing their news all over the place, and in every which way they can. Still, its a great organization in spite of such annoyance.

NE12Ukid

11:00 pm on Friday, November 30, 2012

I'm really confused with those who try to use Jesus as a reason for their behaviors and actions, yet refuse to believe what He says. This makes no sense. It is akin to the atheist putting up a Christmas tree in their home, and "celebrating" Christmas. How confusing? To what end? Roger

I'd say the atheist, along with many other not religious persons or non Christians, are celebrating the secular Christmas, the one with Santa Claus and reindeer, and decorated fir trees, wreaths, cookies. Not everyone is celebrating the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem this time of year, but that doesnt mean they can't celebrate a secular holiday if they wish.

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Roger

7:22 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

"... secular Christmas ..." Oh my!!! Some people are really confused. Thanks for confirming my previous post.

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NE12Ukid

7:37 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Happy Saturnalia, Roger! :-)

scott Stilwell

4:42 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

To respond to the original question posed in the article: I will be spending a slight bit more this year. A very marginal change though.

As for the secular vs. religious debate.....
I'm siding with Roger. Jesus Christ was, is, and will always be the true reason for Christmas. After all, the holiday bears His name. Had He not been born, the Christmas holiday would never existed

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NE12Ukid

7:33 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Of course, Scott, but it's not a question of siding with one or the other, both secular and several religious holidays are observed this time of year. Why not enjoy as many as you wish!
Since Judaism came long before Christianity, and Dec. 25 as Christmas was decided to replace Saturnalia, I thought this information from JudaismOnline might be of interest to readers here:

In the 4th century CE, Christianity imported the Saturnalia festival hoping to take the pagan masses in with it, and succeeded in converting large numbers of pagans by promising them that they could continue to celebrate the Saturnalia as Christians.

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NE12Ukid

7:34 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

The problem was that there was nothing Christian about Saturnalia so these Christian leaders named Saturnalia’s concluding day, December 25th, Jesus’ birthday.
Christians had little success, however, refining the practices of Saturnalia. As Stephen Nissenbaum, professor history at the University of Massachussetts, Amherst, writes, “In return for ensuring massive observance of the anniversary of the Savior’s birth by assigning it to this resonant date, the Church for its part tacitly agreed to allow the holiday to be celebrated more or less the way it had always been.” Hence the earliest Christmas holidays were celebrated by drinking, sexual indulgence, singing naked in the streets.
Rev. Increase Mather of Boston observed in 1687 that “the early Christians who first observed the Nativity on December 25 did not do so thinking that Christ was born in that Month, but because the Heathens’ Saturnalia was at that time kept in Rome, and they were willing to have those Pagan Holidays metamorphosed into Christian ones." Because of its known pagan origin, Christmas was banned by the Puritans and its observance was illegal in Massachusetts between 1659 and 1681 However, Christmas was and still is celebrated by most Christians.

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NE12Ukid

7:34 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

(conclusion)

Some of the most depraved customs of the Saturnalia carnival were intentionally revived by the Catholic Church in 1466 when Pope Paul II, for the amusement of his Roman citizens, forced Jews to race naked through the streets of the city. ....On December 25, 1881, Christian leaders whipped the Polish masses into Antisemitic frenzies that led to riots across the country. In Warsaw 12 Jews were brutally murdered, huge numbers maimed, and many Jewish women were raped.
Merry Christmas!
And happy holidays to all!

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Roger

7:55 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

NE ... while your C & P of history may be right, it has zero to do with the celebration of the Incarnation. These are common rebuttals to celebrating the Incarnation "in our own way," which are only deflecting the point. The history lesson is irrelevant to the reason for the Incarnation.

To suggest "our own way ..." is a rejection of the person of Jesus Christ. This is rejecting the gift of salvation, the gift of an eternal destiny with the Creator, the Lord God Almighty. If saying this not to be the case, then please present to us your source of absolute truth regarding these matters, and the outcomes of your belief. No, we are not looking for "in my opinion," or "this is what I think." We need to hear your belief system, and the foundation of that belief system for your argument to hold any validity.

NE12Ukid

8:25 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

I'm not debating nor sharing my belief system with you here, Roger, I am just saying that commemoration of the birth of Jesus is just ONE of many holidays which occur at this time of year, and not the first one by a long shot.

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Roger

7:15 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

NE ... why not share your belief system? Your reluctance to do so leaves us with a couple of choices, either you are ignorant of what you believe and why, or you are unwilling to defend your belief system. Don't you know, or are you so unsure that you are not prepared to defend?

Your silence has nothing to do with how many holidays may or may not be celebrated.

NE12Ukid

8:46 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Bottom line, Roger, is that many people celebrate many things in many ways, so HAPPY HOLIDAYS to all.
No need to preach to others as if they have to accept YOUR personal choice, because they don't. Atheists, agnostics, Buddhists, Muslims, Pagans, and others choose to celebrate Christmas with secular traditions or not at all, perhaps choosing to use the time off work and school for other types of family bonding such as Mr. Barrington does.
If others can wish YOU a Merry Christmas or Happy Holiday, why can't you just accept their kind greetings? I will.

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Roger

9:00 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Thanks for your wishes. You follow a path of some others, who, when asked to articulate their own beliefs, choose to opt out. Why is this so? Are you so unsure of what you believe that you are unwilling, or unable, to articulate them? Are you so unsure of the basis of your belief that you find it wobbly when asked to speak it out?

Family bonding is fine on one level, but nothing about the question of eternal destiny. Celebrating in "many ways" is fine, but does nothing about the question of eternal destiny. Time off from work has nothing to do with the question of eternal destiny.

The ideas expressed above are not of my own construction, rather have a firm basis and foundation. The notion of eternity resides in the heart of all mankind. To deny is to delude one's self. For a very simple example, consider architectural history through the ages. Much of the effort of construction was done to deal with eternity future. Thinking the 2012 generation is different is misguided.

A Happy Holiday is very miniscule idea, when compared to joy knowing what eternity awaits the believer in the work of Jesus Christ. None of the joy is possible apart from His Incarnation. Without the Incarnation, there would be no Resurrection, and without the Resurrection, our faith is in vain. Every man is lost, and is unable to satisfy Justice on their own terms.

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NE12Ukid

12:06 pm on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Roger
9:00 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012 Thanks for your wishes. You follow a path of some others, who, when asked to articulate their own beliefs, choose to opt out. Why is this so? Are you so unsure of what you believe that you are unwilling, or unable, to articulate them? Are you so unsure of the basis of your belief that you find it wobbly when asked to speak it out?

Not at all, I just don't think it is pertinent to this topic and only added my thoughts because I did not agree with your preaching at Barrington just because his chosen beliefs/celebrations/whatever were not lockstep with yours.
The point was that there are many holidays this time of year, some of those include gift giving, and I hope everyone enjoys whatever they celebrate.
You have no idea what PATH I follow, and I still wish you a happy holiday season, and hope that you can learn to accept the diversity that makes this world so amazingly interesting to me! I'm glad you accepted/thanked me for my good wishes to you, but you still seem unable to accept that not everyone believes as you do.
(Not saying how close or far from your beliefs mine happen to be...)

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Roger

7:17 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

NE ... no lockstep here at all. What I have said is simple truths directly from the Bible. There is no preaching (your use of the term suggests you don't know what it means), only sharing the source of truth. I understand that some have trouble dealing with truth, but denial does not change anything.

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Roger

7:39 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

NE ... one other thought. I may sound argumentative, but I have two concerns for everybody, not just you

First, spiritually, I deeply am concerned for anybody who does not have an assurance of a favorable eternal destiny. Apart from the person of Jesus Christ, everybody is eternally lost. That is the default position. This is why having the absolute truth is critically important. Just being defiant does nothing about the future, thinking "it will all work out." Everybody knows eternity in their heart, and must deal with the spiritual part of life. There is no basis for the "worm food" position.

Second, practically, our society is highly populated with people who are searching for peace. Guilt is eating up so many people. The process brings people to seek an escape. The escape mechanism takes many forms, including alcohol, drugs, materialism, career, relationships, etc. Every one of these paths prove themselves to be unsatisfying. The spiritual void cannot be filled with these paths. For the believer, there is forgiveness, a way to rid one's self of guilt, and an assurance of eternal destiny. The believer knows some things for certain, without reservation. I realize this sounds arrogant, but the Holy Spirit teaches and works along with man's spirit to understand these spiritual matters. No apologies.

My concern is for the spiritual well-being of others. Ignoring the matter is like leaving a precious gift at the door.

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NE12Ukid

8:36 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Roger
7:17 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012 NE ... no lockstep here at all. What I have said is simple truths directly from the Bible.

that's very clear, but you must realize that not everyone believes in the Bible.
This is why I am not getting into debating my belief system vs yours, or how ours may be similar. It does not matter what YOU believe or what I believe, if you can't accept that others have different beliefs and theirs are just as valid for them!

NE12Ukid

8:51 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

<<< it has zero to do with the celebration of the Incarnation. These are common rebuttals to celebrating the Incarnation "in our own way," >>>

Incarnation? Would that not more correctly be Immaculate Conception, not Christmas Day?

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Gerry Kranz

9:06 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Don't you semi-intellectual idiots realize that you cannot debate faith? Your facts are all correct, but that is where your intellect ends, NE1. If you attempt to debate faith, you will only spark a rage that you can never bottle back up. It is the perception of a threat to faith that sparks huge movements, like the Muslim Brotherhood or the Inquisition.

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NE12Ukid

9:31 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

Inquiring about his definition of Incarnation is not akin to debate, dear Gerry.
Many people celebrate many things in many ways, so HAPPY HOLIDAYS to you , too!
And for the New Year, perhaps you'd consider less name calling and more kindness, it's not just for Christians you know.

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NE12Ukid

9:35 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

So, Gerry, how are you celebrating the HOLIDAYS over in Hellertown? Get any snow yet? Do you care? c'mon, share with us!
HAPPY HOLIDAYS

NE12Ukid

9:32 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012

James Dale Barrington
I am not a Christian, but I consider myself an admirer of Jesus as I would many others throughout history, and today, that gives preference to those with less of the material advantages we take for granted so often. Because Christmas is such a part of the culture of our lives we respond to it in the way that is appropriate for everyone when that is possible. Because of the holidays my sons or myself will use some of the days off to visit each other. - Since the article was speaking to the value we place upon these holidays I spoke to that. It is a small world, and I do wish each of you a Christmas full of merry-making, love and family.>>>>

Best wishes to you, too!

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James Dale Barrington

8:13 pm on Saturday, December 1, 2012

NE12Ukid- Just looked at the posts again after two or three days off. I agree with the attitude you have about a pluralistic and diverse culture. To me it makes for a better world when we can accept without question our neighbor and stranger among us as a fellow human being who basically has the same needs we all do. Giving them the space they need and a friendly hello will go a long way to making a better world. - Thanks for the 'assist.' I have always felt that collegial (in this case, as human beings) respect was basic to all relationship.

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Roger

7:23 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

James, how does pluralistic and diverse cultures make any difference toward one's eternal destiny. All the pluralism and cultural differences have no bearing on the matter.

What does these perspectives have to do with eternal destiny? Exchanging "Happy Holiday" may make you temporarily feel good about yourself, but does nothing about the your eternal future.

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NE12Ukid

8:38 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

And saying MERRY CHRISTMAS does not insure YOUR "eternal destiny".

JS

8:59 pm on Saturday, December 1, 2012

My holiday budget was slashed a few years ago. Not because of the economy, but because I tired of the commercialism and ridiculousness of it all. Our family picks names and we all only buy one gift. Our celebration evolved over the last few years and is now so much more enjoyable. The gifts are only a small part of our time together, rather than the focus and no one comes to the celebration worn down by the need to top last year's gift or buy beyond their means.

Thanks to those who shared their thoughts on the meaning of this time of the year. There are many different types of celebrations of the "true light of the world". Some see that light as nature, some as some spirit or god. Some allow all to celebrate their own tradition, some feel the need to impose theirs on others and feel slighted that all don't share their faith. I see things changing for the better, tolerance - wise, though apparently we still have a long way to go.

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NE12Ukid

8:39 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Nicely said, JS. I hope you are right about that improved tolerance, I have seen signs of it too, but such a long way to go----as these PATCH pages so often illustrate!

James Dale Barrington

9:16 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Roger-- Frankly, I'm not worried about my eternal future, but I am worried about the earth's future and what democracy could be in the world - given that we are all participants as inhabitants of the same planet.

JS--NE12Ukid -- I'm with you in your wishes, -- but my confidence doesn't rise up to your level, yet... I most definitely like your thinking, however.

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NE12Ukid

12:18 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Well, James, I'm big on doing those things around the holidays that bring you joy, satisfaction, or bring such to others. Which is why I support your choices as they bring joy to you and yours. If you love baking and giving cookies to everyone around you, that can be a great way for you to celebrate the holiday. If going to church services does it for you, then that's what you should do. If singing carols, then sing! And if camping with the family is where you find your holiday joy, then enjoy that to the fullest extent you wish!

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